He loves her, but she loves him and he loves somebody else, you just can’t win! I woke up this morning and I watched the news and saw back to back to back stories on famous couples cheating! From Arnold to Jesse James, it was just terrible to see all these stories. First of all, I CAN talk about this, because I’m no angel. In my life, I have cheated and I have been cheated on.
There’s nothing good or right about cheating. I know the feeling and the high you get when you make that bad decision and I know the hurt you feel when karma comes right back at you.
There are two things I wish I never did when I was growing up and as I became an adult and that’s doing drugs and cheating.
I’m sorry to everyone I ever hurt and this dates back all the way to elementary school. I remember when I first kissed another girl I wasn’t suppose to. I was in 5th grade and I did it because I wanted to be like FONZIE. How silly that may seem, it makes me realize TODAY that I have to be a good role model, because others might or will follow my lead ESPECIALLY my children.
Being upfront and honest is all I have!
Making those bad decisions even as a kid, amazes me today. The only good thing to come out of all this is that I am here today being able to say that wasn’t good and I don’t do that anymore.
Why would someone cheat when you have the best person in your life as your girlfriend or your wife? It’s because we are just stupid.
He cheated on a Kennedy with the housekeeper. Why did that happen? I am not saying it as a status thing, but even if Arnold was married to the housekeeper and cheated on her with a Hilton, it’s the same thing. You have to stay faithful or get out of it and leave the relationship with honor.
Yes, I can say that today and I truly wish I could go back in time and do things all over again, but life doesn’t work that way.
For each person, the reason why they cheat is different from anyone else. People have their reasons or their excuses. It’s a weakness that I hope people can stop. Can Arnold stop? Did this scare him to stop? There will be more stories coming out on Arnold perhaps even by tonight.
I often wonder why I cheated. I can give a lame list of many things that used to justify it for me, but in reality, I was just weak myself and dumb and stupid and an idiot.
I wish I knew what I know now, when I was younger!
People who have it all feel that sometimes they don’t need to play by the rules. None of these high powered people should have an excuse other than it was poor judgement. You can’t blame it on all the girls that hit on you like all those famous rock stars that cheat and you can’t blame it on being lonely because your actress wife Sandra was away for months at a time.
I get calls from people almost daily that ask me for advice on their kids getting off drugs. SADLY, I also get calls from people that I know that are finding out they are being cheated on.
It’s almost all the same story that they had a great life and they had everything going for them and then the cheating.
Is it in the man’s genes? Can he keep it in his jeans?
Men cheat, but women cheat too, but I can’t speak for women, but as a man and as a person that hurt many people by making dumb choices, I am sorry. I also forgive the people over the years that have cheated on me. Yes, what comes around goes around. That’s true!
It’s not IF you’ll get caught, it’s WHEN!
Please don’t do drugs and please don’t cheat!
THE FOLLOWING was posted on the comments section below and I wanted to showcase it here. Ron, is a listener and reader of this blog and wrote the following:
Ownership is a big deal too. I have to own it when I have cheated. No one else “made me” cheat. I own my wrong doings and I too am so sorry for all I have hurt in my path of selfishness. For me, forgiveness is the most powerful weapon we have against all forms of sin. When we forgive, it doesn’t remove all of the pain or make it all right, but it does offer people a fresh start. I am so greatful for fresh starts! Cheating and lying are two bedfellows. Neither produce good fruit. But forgiveness creates opportunity to produce a new crop. I am free from those who have cheated on me by forgiving them. I hope others will forgive me of my wrong doings too.